Wednesday, August 31, 2011
forgotten people
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
there really are people that are beyond stupid!
My little brother turned ummm, i'm 30, so he must be....28?? anyway his birthday was yesterday. and if any of you know us, know that we had a very rough childhood, we had a very abusive father (though we don't call him that....we call him the sperm donor) and it took us years to get over all the abuse he put us through. well, he showed up to my little brother work on his birthday, which totally ruined my brothers day. and come to find out the sperm donors step child (who must be 18-19 years old now) told him where my brother is working. anyway, it really pissed me off. who gives her the right to be so devious and deceitful to tell the sperm donor where any of us work or live....(i however have refused to talk to any of them for many years now)
any way i email her to tell her how wrong that was of her and that she and her family should leave me and my family alone. that we don't want anything to do with them, especially the sperm donor. well, she had turned into the sperm donor over the years, and decided to start making fun of me and my family, and saying that it was funny how they ruined my brothers birthday, and so on and so on. starting saying lies about my husband and on and on and on.....same things the sperm donor would do. you know the drill, calling me fat, saying that my husband is an abuser, and on and on and on....you know how these things can get. so, i finally stopped laughing at her (cause you know it pisses people off more when you laugh at them and not get pissed off at what they say) so i started to ignore her.....yet, i did not know what a persistent little shit she was....so, i took a deep breath and decided that the only way to get her to shut up was to let her know that i'm the one in control, and she was not........
so........this is what i wrote her........(i will not post what she wrote me, it was just stupidity at its best anyway, and i don't want your IQ to go down points just because you had to read her jabber!)
jennifer
it amazes me that all you slum people think you are so much better than every one else. but, when you look at yourself in the mirror, or are totally honest with yourself, you know what a pathetic hard life you lead. that you have made really bad decisions and you don't like where you are headed and what you have done.
to hate someone so much and to make fun of someone in such a fashion as you have, it just proves to everyone else that you are in fact the jealous one. that you know that i am where you will never be and it angers you.
i can see why you are so angry and so jealous of me. but i am just me, and i have worked hard for where i am in life and what i have.
you are upset that your mother went from one abuser to another, and we know this is true, because DHS took all you kids away from them...a smart mother would have dumped the abuser and focused on their children, and not the man in their life. and you know you are going down the same path.
calling someone fat is your way of dealing with your own physical deformation. you have heard it all your life, and you know how much it hurts you, so you think that it may hurt someone else. which in this case, it doesn't, so it angers you even more.
to try and hurt someone by name calling only proves to show that you are in fact an uneducated, narcissistic, gluttonous, oppressor. which you have obviously deemed to be good qualities in life.
to make fun of people being "gay" in fact is a shortcoming on your part, which in fact that you are afraid of who you really are and have "gay" qualities yourself.
to speak of lies, which you have many times, especially about my husband, usually is a sign of you pulling at strings to stir the pot, which in this case has had no effect on me. i know who my husband is, and therefore your lies you speak of never has happened and do not bother me because they never existed.
this only concludes to what we already know, you know kenneth abused you and your mom and sisters, and you hate the fact that he continues still today, even if it is only mentally. and you are envious of me and my siblings and my mother because we were the smart ones to rise above it, and move on with our lives, and you see all of us happy and doing so well for ourselves, that it makes you see red with anger. which i can understand. sometimes life isn't fair. but intelligent people are able to be strong enough to move on, to learn from their past and become stronger and greater. and that is what my brother, my sister and i have done. and we don't need nor want that in our lives again and we are strong enough to voice that! and you cannot because you are stuck and scared.
and you continuing to say things about incest and doing sexual things to parental figures, i have only one thing to ask, were you sexually molested? because you are obsessed with that vision. and perhaps you may need some professional help. if in fact you were, you really should consider help, a lot of the time, the victim becomes the abuser and you have at least one child that i know of, and if would be sad to know that you were harming your own child. with as much anger you have inside of you, you should really seek professional help, before someone gets hurt.
any way i email her to tell her how wrong that was of her and that she and her family should leave me and my family alone. that we don't want anything to do with them, especially the sperm donor. well, she had turned into the sperm donor over the years, and decided to start making fun of me and my family, and saying that it was funny how they ruined my brothers birthday, and so on and so on. starting saying lies about my husband and on and on and on.....same things the sperm donor would do. you know the drill, calling me fat, saying that my husband is an abuser, and on and on and on....you know how these things can get. so, i finally stopped laughing at her (cause you know it pisses people off more when you laugh at them and not get pissed off at what they say) so i started to ignore her.....yet, i did not know what a persistent little shit she was....so, i took a deep breath and decided that the only way to get her to shut up was to let her know that i'm the one in control, and she was not........
so........this is what i wrote her........(i will not post what she wrote me, it was just stupidity at its best anyway, and i don't want your IQ to go down points just because you had to read her jabber!)
jennifer
it amazes me that all you slum people think you are so much better than every one else. but, when you look at yourself in the mirror, or are totally honest with yourself, you know what a pathetic hard life you lead. that you have made really bad decisions and you don't like where you are headed and what you have done.
to hate someone so much and to make fun of someone in such a fashion as you have, it just proves to everyone else that you are in fact the jealous one. that you know that i am where you will never be and it angers you.
i can see why you are so angry and so jealous of me. but i am just me, and i have worked hard for where i am in life and what i have.
you are upset that your mother went from one abuser to another, and we know this is true, because DHS took all you kids away from them...a smart mother would have dumped the abuser and focused on their children, and not the man in their life. and you know you are going down the same path.
calling someone fat is your way of dealing with your own physical deformation. you have heard it all your life, and you know how much it hurts you, so you think that it may hurt someone else. which in this case, it doesn't, so it angers you even more.
to try and hurt someone by name calling only proves to show that you are in fact an uneducated, narcissistic, gluttonous, oppressor. which you have obviously deemed to be good qualities in life.
to make fun of people being "gay" in fact is a shortcoming on your part, which in fact that you are afraid of who you really are and have "gay" qualities yourself.
to speak of lies, which you have many times, especially about my husband, usually is a sign of you pulling at strings to stir the pot, which in this case has had no effect on me. i know who my husband is, and therefore your lies you speak of never has happened and do not bother me because they never existed.
this only concludes to what we already know, you know kenneth abused you and your mom and sisters, and you hate the fact that he continues still today, even if it is only mentally. and you are envious of me and my siblings and my mother because we were the smart ones to rise above it, and move on with our lives, and you see all of us happy and doing so well for ourselves, that it makes you see red with anger. which i can understand. sometimes life isn't fair. but intelligent people are able to be strong enough to move on, to learn from their past and become stronger and greater. and that is what my brother, my sister and i have done. and we don't need nor want that in our lives again and we are strong enough to voice that! and you cannot because you are stuck and scared.
and you continuing to say things about incest and doing sexual things to parental figures, i have only one thing to ask, were you sexually molested? because you are obsessed with that vision. and perhaps you may need some professional help. if in fact you were, you really should consider help, a lot of the time, the victim becomes the abuser and you have at least one child that i know of, and if would be sad to know that you were harming your own child. with as much anger you have inside of you, you should really seek professional help, before someone gets hurt.
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